TITLE: Bookends AUTHOR: Eugene Wallingford DATE: May 22, 2018 3:30 PM DESC: ----- BODY: This weekend, my family headed to St. Paul, Minnesota, to celebrate my younger daughter's graduation from college. The day served as a bookend to the day. seven years ago this fall when I dropped my older daughter off at college. Two beginnings, two endings -- and the beginnings they created. Graduation day was emotional for me in a different way. It is wonderful gift to hear faculty and friends say such good things about your child. This is a young women I've always known to be special, and now we know some of the ways the rest of the world appreciates her. They appreciate some of the same things I appreciate, but they also know her in ways I do not and so can appreciate her ways I don't always have access to. Another gift. Off into the world she goes to do her thing. To be honest, though, she's been out in the world for a long time doing her thing and making it a better place. It's one of the things I admire so in her, and in her big sister. I enjoy admiring my daughters as much as I do. With both daughters out of college, I will miss the time we've spent visiting their college campuses. I tried to savor this weekend more knowing as I do how much I missed my older daughter's campus after she graduated. Of course, now I'll get to visit them in places like Boston and Minneapolis and get to know these cities better, through their eyes. Yet another gift. -----