TITLE: The Test AUTHOR: Eugene Wallingford DATE: January 02, 2020 4:37 PM DESC: ----- BODY: Over the holiday, I realized something about myself. A simple test exists for determining when I have reached the enlightenment of the Buddha: I will be able to fly without tension or complaint over delayed flights, airline tickets and policies, and the TSA. The good news: I survived another trip. Special thanks to Felipe at United Airlines customer service for doing his best to help with a delayed flight on Christmas Eve, to Nic R. at the Cedar Rapids Airport for solving our problem, and to Joy, the flight attendant on the first leg of our journey, for a soothing excursion. I did more than survive, though. Once in Boston, my wife and I had a wonderful time visiting our daughters for the week between Christmas Eve and New Year's Eve! I wrote once about my older daughter leaving for college. Both are graduated now, making their way out in the world as adults. This was our first holiday away from our home -- what used to be their home -- and in their new homes. I enjoyed spending time with them on their turf and on their terms. We talked about their futures, but also routine life: recipes, movies, and life in the city. On the last day, my older daughter and I made candles. It was an unexpected joy. For us, a trip to Boston includes visits to a museum whenever possible. This trip included three: the Harvard art museums, the Isabella Stewart Gardner, and the MFA. My daughters showed me paintings they have discovered on their own visits, and I shared with them ones that I like. I usually discover a work or two on each visit that grab my eye for the first time, or again in a new way. On my first visit to the Harvard museum, one painting really grabbed me: "Leander's Tower on the Bosporus", by Sanford Robinson Gifford.