TITLE: Speaking in a Second Language AUTHOR: Eugene Wallingford DATE: November 29, 2020 2:26 PM DESC: ----- BODY: From this enlightening article that was being passed around a while back:
Talking posed a challenge for me. While my Mandarin was strong for someone who had grown up in the US, I wasn't fluent enough to express myself in the way I wanted. This had some benefits: I had to think before I spoke. I was more measured. I was a better listener. But it was also frustrating, as though I'd turned into a person who was meek and slow on the uptake. It made me think twice about the Chinese speakers at work or school in the US whom I'd judged as passive or retiring. Perhaps they were also funny, assertive, flirtatious, and profane in their native tongue, as I am in mine.
When people in the US talk about the benefits of learning a second language, they rarely, if ever, mention the empathy one can develop for others who speak and work in in a second language. Maybe that's because so few of us Americans learn a foreign language well enough to reach this level of enlightenment. I myself learned just enough German in school to marvel at the accomplishment of exchange students studying here in their second language, knowing that I was nowhere near ready to live and study in a German-speaking land. Marvel, though, is not quite as valuable in this context as empathy. -----